Fundamental of Character
All Things
Forgiveness
Forgiveness is arguably the most important virtue for individuals and humanity as a whole. Holding grudges comes with very few benefits and a host of drawbacks. Release yourself from these “charges.” Obviously, that’s easier said than done. But you’ll be happier for doing so.
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What Is Forgiveness?
Forgiveness is the act of releasing resentment held towards others (or oneself). This resentment may be focused on a specific act or a perceived character flaw. Either way, forgiveness is essentially empathy in action. It’s a powerful ability that can liberate all parties.
Why Forgiveness?
Granting forgiveness is no simply feat. However, it is one of the single most powerful ways to improve your quality of life and make the world a better place.
I don’t claim to be an expert on anything I write about.
Hell, I hardly claim to be an expert on myself.  😂😂😂
These breakdowns are largely for me. I use them to record and reference. Unlike most others on this site though, this goal setting page might actually be useful to the outside observer.
No promises. You can tell me.
Ultimate Virtue
Releasing the blame and anger that comes with being wronged requires extreme strength of character.
most important and hardest, requires extreme strength
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Being Like Christ
Forgiveness is one of the strongest themes of the Christian faith.
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Untying Neuro Knots
Forgiveness has been shown to have positive effects on brain structure, improving decision making and more.
Integrating the Shadow
Forgiveness is a/the pathway
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There’s a lot that goes into [achieving/learning this favorite]. Here’s a quick look at what the [this favorite] journey has been like for me.
Learn with Me
Since as early as I can remember:
I’ve always held forgiveness as the highest virtue.
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My Experience
I’m climbing my way toward mastery.
More than anything, I just need a few more years.
I already have a fairly sophisticated system. But for me, figuring out what I really want takes reps.
I use my goals to carve out a life purpose.
Points of emphasis respond to change in both me and in the world. But all the while, they pull me forward.
I create goals then mold my character to the traits that those objectives require. My goals help me discover the man I need to be so that I can do the things I want to do.
So far, they’ve served me well. Long may it continue.
- Importance – 99%
- Passion – 85%
- Mastery – 90%
Journey Started: ≈2010
Good Life Foundation
Goals are fundamental. They are an essential pillar of a good life. Without them, it’s easy to get blown to and fro by the winds of the world.
Where Goal Setting Fits in a Good Life
Goals are one of the most important pieces of the Achievement puzzle.
For me, they’re a “Tier 2” concept, on the same level as Mindset, Habits, Growth, and High Performance.
It is also closely tied to practices like Journaling.
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3. Frameworks
3. Scheduling
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4. Daily Planning
3. Business Plans
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Pulling Threads: A Lion Chasing Rabbits
What the hell is This Site, exactly? A pointless stream of consciousness? A fanboy's ode to his Heroes? A psycho's Favorite topics? All three? Or maybe, it's just the result of a lion chasing rabbits. You might LOL... but this is how it works: I am destined to be the...
Becoming Someone Who Forgives All Things
For [this favorite] newbies:
Let’s start with the best advice up front.
Just get started.
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 takes strength of character/will
forgiveness is the most important thing
forgiveness is not necessarily for the other person, it’s for you… or talk about forgiving yourself first, then say even when you’re forgiving others, you should do it for you.
from self brainwashing page:
Holding grudges is one of the most surefire ways to make yourself miserable. Unfortunately, Forgiving others (or yourself) isn’t always straightforward. We often hold onto things without even knowing it. Releasing such charges has profound affects on the brain.
However, modern science has shown us the profound affectsÂ
However, we often hold until things without really knowing it… childhood trauma
release charges/clear the clutter
forgive yourself… shadow self
motivation is probably the only benefit… “prove them wrong” mentality… even then it comes at the detriment of your mental health
Nothing requires more strength than Forgiveness. Unfortunately, it isn’t always obvious who or what we need to forgive. You might have to dive deep into your psyche to uncover the “charges” that you’re holding onto. Once you do though, let them go. They’re hurting you more than anyone else.
hardest thing to get off your back but lightens your load the most
When you dive deep in your psyche, you might realize that the main person you need to forgive is yourself…
Find them, then let them go. After all, holding grudges hurt you more than anyone else.
How to Forgive Step-By-Step
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Remember: just start. The first time you put your goals on paper, you’re closer to achieving your dreams than 90% of the population.
My Favorite Forgiveness Videos
Everything you need to learn about goals is online.
I’m no high performance titan. I stand on the shoulders of giants. I simply listen to what my Heroes say and apply it. Not everything sticks. But enough does to make a lasting impact.
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One of the main purposes of This Site is to catalog my learnings. I’m not that learned. But I’m working on becoming moreso. If you see a “data dump” on this site, you’re looking at unsorted information. It may be related or completely unrelated, depending on the topic.
Wash It Away // Gondola Sessions
Nahko Bear & Leah Song "Wash It Away"
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How I Use Forgiveness to Live a Better Life
If you haven’t noticed, I take this stuff seriously.
You don’t have to do it like me. But maybe you wanna know. So I guess I’ll tell you. You might have picked some of it up by reading through this page or clicking on some of the links.
I’ll spell it all out here.
Grudge Hot Potato
Only Carrying My Own Burdens… dropping it as quickly as I can
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Allergic to New Charges
new charges just bounce off of me… always been good at justifying another’s actions
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Forgiving Myself
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How I Do It Part 4
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I'm fairly confident 2022 is going to be the most successful year of my life so far. I'm writing this post to help guarantee that. Obviously, I can't control the future. But I can set intentions and create a plan of action. That's what Goal Setting is all about. So...
Setting the New 20s Off Right: My 2020 Goals
New Year's Resolutions get a bad wrap. It's not their fault though. It's yours. The truth is: The beginning of the year is a perfect time for a reset. You have to execute though. Do it right and this year could be the best year you've ever had. No guarantees. Because,...
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Becoming a "morning person" has changed my life. Only time will tell, but it could go down as a top five factor to my future success. Learning how to wake up early wasn't easy. Until the second half of 2018, I've been a notoriously late sleeper. It started as a kid: I...
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I have mixed feelings about New Year's Resolutions. I don't believe in waiting to make changes. I think it makes more sense to try to grow everyday. Create good new habits. Erase the negative old ones. Do it all the time. However, I find that measurement is...
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